What are the chances of me being a molester when I grow up??!!?

I've been through a similar experiance. And like you, molestation seems to run in the family. My brother molested my cousin. He [my brother] was molested by my dad who was molested by my Pop Pop who was molested by his dad...You get the idea. There is a chance that you could grow up to be a molester, but it's not very high. Especially if you are a girl. I'm a girl and so is my cousin and neither of us are molesters. True, I'm only 16, but my brother was only 14 when he molested my cousin. Don't worry about it. You will definately be affected by it, but just because you have some of the resulting issues doesn't mean you will have them all.